Many would argue that this wedding day scenario would have the same effect with a guy who had already been having sex, but they would be wrong.NOTHING impacts a man like his first sexual experience.That is why so many married woman view sex as an unimportant side issue in marriage, when it is, in fact, a key and central issue to a successful marriage.God’s original plan was to use sex as the path to commitment.Yet enough do that we take great lengths to warn people of the potential dangers.Sadly, little has been said of the danger of how pre-marital sex can negatively affect people for the rest of their lives.
This incredible experience leaves a major “imprint” on him.
They all come together in one gigantic effort to celebrate their approval of what he has chosen.
They now gather in the presence of God, under the approval of his minister.
First the psychological damage: When a woman experiences sex without commitment, she soon learns (falsely) that sex means little to nothing. Because nothing happens as a result: no meaningful relationship ensues – he may never even call her or talk to her again.
She has inaccurately learned that sex and commitment are two completely separate issues, which they are not.